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Dating,
Reimagined.
Go Dutch.
DutchDate is a movement for fair, fun, and respectful dating. We empower genuine connections by removing the awkwardness around money, so you can focus on what truly matters.
Free to join · No credit card needed
Sarah, 27
New York
Sarah, 27
New York
15
US Cities
AI
Smart Matching
100%
Free to Start
Solo
Pay Your Own
A Different Kind of Dating App
Built on the belief that dating should be about people, not wallets.
Genuine Connections
We believe dating should be about getting to know someone for who they truly are, not about financial expectations.
Mutual Respect
Every person deserves to feel valued and respected. Our platform is built on the foundation of equality and fairness.
Progressive Values
We challenge outdated norms and create space for modern, thoughtful approaches to dating and relationships.
Why DutchDate?
Built for a generation that values equality, transparency, and genuine connections.
AI Matching Engine
Our intelligent engine learns your preferences to suggest highly compatible matches based on budget, interests, and personality.
Fairness Score
Build your reputation with our unique scoring system. Earn the Fair Partner Badge and stand out to quality matches.
Seamless Date Planning
Book reservations and experiences directly through our Google Places and Viator integrations. Plan the perfect date in-app.
Thoughtful Gifting
Surprise your match with flowers or gifts via our 1-800-Flowers integration. Small gestures make big impressions.
Verified Safety
Feel secure with optional background checks powered by Checkr. Earn a Verified Safety Badge on your profile.
Real-Time Chat
Message matches instantly with AI-powered conversation starters that break the ice naturally.
AI Profile Assistant
Our AI assistant helps craft your perfect profile through a friendly, natural conversation. Stand out effortlessly.
Budget Alignment
Match with people who share your spending style. From casual $ to fine dining $$$$ — no awkward surprises.
How It Works
Create Your Profile
Our AI assistant guides you through building a standout profile. Set your budget style and let your personality shine.
Match & Connect
Discover budget-aligned profiles, match with compatible people, and start meaningful conversations.
Plan & Go Dutch
Plan dates in-app, each person pays their own, and build your Fairness Score. Earn badges and recognition.
Designed for your phone
DutchDate is built mobile-first. Match and plan budget-aligned dates with a beautiful, intuitive interface.
- AI-powered conversational onboarding
- Real-time chat with smart suggestions
- Integrated date planning with Google Places & Viator
- Gamified fairness scoring system
- Background check verification via Checkr
Dutch Date
New York
Chicago · $$ · Verified
Austin · $ · Fair Partner
Your Fairness Score
4.2 / 5.0
"Dating shouldn't be about how much you pay on the first date. It should be about getting to know the other person for who they are."
The DutchDate Philosophy